Grounded like the Oak, Steady like the Sun

It has always intrigued me when someone acts like they are more important than someone else.


Take a man, who doesn't find women as his equal.  Really big guy?!  You came from a woman's vagina.  Your entire existence is because of a woman.  Speaking on behalf of all women, I feel empowered to say:  I brought you into this world.  Disrespect me.  And I will take you out.  Women are not and have never been an inferior sex.  And if you research history.  Women originated in leadership roles.  Goddesses.

Take a woman, who doesn't find men as her equal.  Go find a hobby bitch, you have too much time on your hands.  I have never understood a woman that treats her man like a child.  We'll get into this later.


Health Issues I find fascinating.  The rich think they can abuse their bodies and fix anything with money.  To their demise, that is untrue.  Wasted unnecessary medical treatments that not only don't fix everything or even anything for that matter, AND some treatments create problems that didn't even exist in the first place!

On the flip side, it is perceived that the poor have more medical problems because they can't afford to fix them.  When in reality, they are forced into natural, alternative, holistic treatments because they are nature-derived, cheap, and shocker... they actually work!!!

What does cause damage is the unhealthy lifestyle that usually surrounds people in poverty, but we'll get into that later.  


Religious Beliefs.  This might piss some people off.  But if your religious belief tells you that you are superior and someone else is inferior, for any reason...  IT IS WRONG.   Love does not judge.

Someone make a decision that was immature?  Guess what kid, you were once immature too.  Think about it.  Some people are forced to grow up fast and have a solid moral & ethical set of beliefs in their mind & heart by the time they are 16.  Other may take until they are 60.  Both are OK.    

Don't judge me just because I sin differently than you.  And yes, we all sin.

People come into your life for at least one of three reasons.  You are learning something from them.  You are teaching something to them.  They are your soulmate.  5 billion people on this planet, and I have the pleasure to meet you.  Fascinating, isn't it?

So it all comes down to the fact that very little things actually matter.  A year from now, will the trivial things that you fill your mind with today, will you even remember them a year from now?  Probably not.   So let it go.    

The important things are not the car you drive, the house you live in, the vacations you go on, the things you buy or save, the education you have, the clothes you were, the way your hair looks, the beer you drink.  What actually matters... it's not the what, it's the how:

Stay grounded like the old oak tree.  Seasons change.  The cold winter wind blows in.  The spring rains wash away yesterday's dirt.  Summer's sun nourishes the soul.  The good.  The bad.  The old oak tree just soaks it all up.

Stay steady like the sun.  Why do we all love going home?!  Because home is home.  It's steady.  It's comfortable.  Trust & Love live there.  It accepts you however you are.  Be accepting.  Be steady.  No matter how many times you go around & get knocked down, always rise back up the next day.  Promise of a new day.  Feel the fire.  Every day.

My Favorite Quotes

Blessed are the weird people - poets, misfits, writers, mystics, painters, troubadours - for 

they teach us to see the world through different eyes.”   -- Jacob Nordby



“I vow to treat you as you good my leather and ride you as much as my Harley"  

     -- Opie, Sons of Anarchy



"After all, computers crash, people die, relationships fall apart. The best we can do is breath

 and reboot.”   -- Sarah Jessica Parker



 “If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people together to collect wood and don't 

assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the 

sea”  --Antoine de Saint-Exupery, French Pilot, Writer and Author of The Little Prince



"If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be 

more intelligent, read them more fairy tales."   -- Albert Einstein



You can't ride two horses with one ass, sugarbean   -- Earl Smooter, Sweet Home Alabama



"When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. it works not because it settles the 

question for you but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly 

know what you are hoping for."   -- Anonymous




"Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like 

work."    -- Thomas A. Edison




"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let 

go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you 

eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better 

things can fall together."  -- Marilyn Monroe




An old Cherokee was teaching his grandchildren about life. He said to them, "A battle is 

raging inside me ... it is a terrible fight between two wolves. One wolf represents fear, 

anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, 

false pride, superiority and ego. The other stands for joy, peace, love, hope, sharing, 

serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, friendship, empathy, generosity, truth, 

compassion and faith."The old man fixed the children with a firm stare. "This same fight is 

going on inside you, and inside every other person, too."They thought about it for a minute 

and then one child asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?" The old Cherokee replied: 

"The one you feed."

We were given: Two hands to hold. Two legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. 

But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find. 

Yin & Yang

To everything there is a match.
Peanut butter has jelly.

You notice the strange girl with all the tattoos.  There is also a strange boy also with many tattoos.  They were meant for each other.  Divine Creation.  Intelligent Design.  A whole split into two, looking for their other half.

The flute fetish band geek met Jim, the flute fetish band geek that just forgot to join the band.

To everything there is an energy.

I attract from the universe what I give out to the universe.  Why do I smile all the time?  Because it attracts me smiles.  And I like smiles.  So I smile to get more smiles.  And I get more smiles.  That make me smile more.  And then I get even more smiles.  And then after a while, I just cannot stop smiling.  Sound like a run-on sentence.  It is.  Keep reading it until you get the point.  Energy is addictive.  Positive energy is an addiction.  

You attract what makes your insides excited.

And whatever makes your insides excited.  You want more of.  Because excited insides make you happy.  And when you're happy, you want more of what makes you happy.

So the question... what makes your insides excited?

The beauty of life.  It can be whatever you fucking want.  How cool is that?!

Life is trying things to see what works.  It might take you 6 days, 6 months, 6 years, or 60 years to figure out what works.  And that's OK.  You might have to do everything wrong to do it right.  That's OK too.

The important thing.  Is that you tried.  What If it doesn't work out?!  Ahhh, but what if it does?!

The secret.  Lies in figuring out yourself.

The 3 most important things in life for any person... any race, color, sex, origin, disease, EVERYONE:
 - Confidence in yourself
 - Respect yourself
 - Love yourself

And the rest is attraction.  You don't have control.  Stop trying.  Just live.

Learn from the bad things.  Enjoy the good things.  Piss on the rest, it doesn't matter.

And when you understand this.  And you see it work.  Life IS a beautiful thing.

You will attract what you need.

I'm a firm believer that opposites attract to teach you a lesson.  Like some people that think I'm a freak, you know you do, just admit it, ha ha ha...   but you will read this.... because you can'd stand not reading it!!!!

What I post, even if you completely disagree with it...  it teaches you something.  Perhaps what you want to be.  Perhaps what you don't want to be.  But everything in life is a growth opportunity.

Dive head first into life.

What the word needs is more people with passion.

But don't try to change the world, the balance is already set.

For every criminal rebel force, there is an angel doing good deeds.

For every doctor saving lives, there is a warrior taking lives.

For everyone that falls in love at 5, there is someone that won't fall in love until 50.  And that is OK.

For everyone that has a fetish, there is someone else that has your same fetish.  You're not a freak.  You just need to find your freak.  Don't judge.  And don't be judged.
 
Accept.  Enjoy.  Live passionately.

And the most important thing to remember...  whatever it is... it is OK.
 


  

Secrets to a happy content life

Read.  And when you're tired.  Read more.
Write.  Tell your story.  No one knows it better.
Sleep.  Sleep heals the body. 
Dream.  Never stop dreaming.
Live.  What if it doesn't work out?  Ahhh, but what if it does?
Love.  Unconditionally.
Laugh.  Whenever you can.
Discover your passions.  Embrace them.
Play.  Some days be the cat.  Some days be the mouse.
Be silly.  You're never too old to be silly.
Learn a new skill/talent/hobby. Grow the mind. And grow it often.
Let go of material possessions.  And don't look back.
Experience new experiences.  Take the ticket.  Ride the ride.
Oxygenate your body.  Breathe.  Deeply.  Into every inch.
Nurture with nature.  You are a tree.  Go barefoot.
Your body is a wonderland.  Explore.
Practice kindness.  Kindness matters.
Be thankful.  Show gratitude.
Generate oxytocin.   The feel good drug.  
Relax.  Wasting time is not a waste of time.
Share.  Compassionately.   
Embrace the power of aromatherapy.
Alkaline diet.  You are what you eat.
Don't settle.  Never settle.  
Always have Hope.   
Embrace the power of touch, bodywork & massage therapy.
Listen to music.  Create your own music.
Nourish the body the same way you nourish the soul and only rub those things on your body that you would put in your mouth.
Drink tea. 
Believe in angels.  They exist.  All you have to do is ask.